Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Tna Jeff Hardy Haircuts

few nights in Marrakech Summer in Mallorca has been a year


pile I have in memory trips Pilar and I did at that time. Although I was earning far less than the previous company, we have the luxury at 90 in summer set ourselves a way out of Palma de Mallorca, around October or November 1st four-day trip to Marrakesh, and so many outlets week.


We loved to travel both. I think this is something that has been largely demonstrated in this blog. I tried to get up to Pilar, who had traveled throughout his life infinitely more than me.


Pilar had an ease sometimes irritating to make a bag or suitcase as he was accustomed to it. When I saw myself putting smelly sneakers next to the pajamas, without protecting them even with a bag, I threw a deep look, and say "Can you tell us what are you doing?". I missed to shake, and put me completely in your hands. Stoically endured the storm of comments like "but what a mess you", "it seems incredible that you're so clever," is you have to see that Adam, my God, " and other niceties that it was worth enduring for the final result, which consisted of a bag or suitcase perfectly ordered.


is difficult to explain the joy I felt while organizing a trip Pilar. I completely put their hands on the recruitment, booking, organizing flights, hotels and transfers from one side to another. I have sometimes thought that she enjoyed more with the logistics of travel with its content. We had perfectly organized. She sent from home to destination, was responsible for airline tickets, hotels bonds and everything else. Once at the destination, it was me who fell in action. I got my plane or my guide travel, and visit the place, intending to visit as many things as possible. Pilar which was then relaxed and allowed to carry, secure forever (that's something we acquire force output) that, taking a plane, however miserable outside, we never were going to lose anywhere.


funny thing is that we were always perfectly sure of each other. Nor I was involved in the goings-Pilar with agencies, or she got into my field at the time of preparing the route. Fully trusted each other. When something went wrong, it was always gratifying to be able to blame anyone specific. "But Pilar, if you are not given boarding passes" or "Okay, Felix, is now the Rodin Museum is closed." We threw our stuff for a while, and then kept on as if nothing had happened, never allowing a minor setback we make a dent for over a minute. Would have to dig very deep memory to remember a negative moment while traveling. It is also true that both Pilar as I always tended to run a veil (a stupid veil, she said) about any negative aspects of both travel and any other situation in our life, and that always helped us not only to enjoy what we were doing, but wish with all our desire to repeat it.


The trip to Mallorca was a before and after our departure. It was the first time we rented a car, which gave us the opportunity to tour the island in its entirety. We considered four days of sightseeing, and three break and enjoy the hotel and the beach close to it. We had time to go Valldemossa, Inca, Palma de Mallorca, Formentor, the Calobra, Manacor and the wonderful beach of Es Trenc, for our taste the best we had seen in our lives, with pines to four meters of water and sand white.


as dwarfs in Valldemossa enjoy the environment created around the adventure that Chopin lived in his famous Charterhouse. It is certainly curious that the concert gave us an elegant piano student, who played like angels. While he was dressed in his suit and tie, listeners in the banks we were distributing our bathing suits and our flip flops, and some even with the torso in the air or, even worse, with that inevitable Celadon shirt knotted at the height of navel. The young man did not care at all public quality listening. I played for him, and closed his eyes to feel more deeply the immortal composer's music.


I've always been amused, and so I mentioned it to Pilar, a desire to put you in all places of Mallorca to sell the book "A Winter in Mallorca", written by George Sand, who recalls his stay in Valldemossa with her lover, the same Chopin. And it's funny because in the book is shipped to taste Sand from Majorca to which one believes (and surely were) hillbillies, ancient, closed, sanctimonious and uncompromising with a woman he considered little more than a whore, the fact of living with her lover and two children from a previous marriage. Never mind that Sand set to give birth to Mallorca. They will continue to offer the book with a smile.


the third day in Mallorca remains in my memory as if it happened yesterday. After eating at a restaurant Inca near, we went to Deia, charming town that many artists have chosen to live. We loved to the point of deciding to buy a house there. It was the first of thousands of the same decisions we make many times, each time we visited a place that impressed us with its beauty. We did the same in Trastevere, in Marrakesh, in London, in Carcassonne, in Munich in Rotenburg, and all the people that runs along the Loire. A decision that illusion for a while until we traveled to the next place, and we changed their minds.


After Dei, we set out to Calobra, a hellish road for the world famous by her curves. Well, folks, I can promise and promise, that Pilar was asleep in the car, despite the rough road. It was incredible. Occasionally he looked at her, and she hung from the belt, sleeping like a log, without knowing or curves or bumps. We bathed in the Calobra, and then went to Manacor. I remember vividly that Pilar was wearing a short white pants and a blue blouse she had, relatively speaking, as a baby of which placed us in school when we were kids. Do not know what happened to Pilar that afternoon, if it was bleeding effect that we had taken at noon, or night's sleep that had thrown the Calobra way, but the fact is he was out of control. He laughed about everything, put the program we were given the inevitable cultured pearl factory speaker mode, and burst suddenly a "Tururú Tururú" which made the tourists looking him, he began to dance on top of a fence post ... Her hair was as always when he had spent more than three days in a wet area, curled and abundant, like a child. The fact is that we are being silly for the whole afternoon, especially her, and we had a great time. We bought a pair of crystal figurines, a pearl for mothers ... typical, but with a touch of hooliganism rarely saw him again. It did not seem it, but I went into a bomb.


I've only seen him on another occasion a similar approach, very similar, not from her, but our son. Occurred after the food of his first communion. Sergio, as serious as it ever was, suddenly started to do geese, without stopping, happy, laughing and making splitting break out laughing the whole family, grandparents, uncles and cousins \u200b\u200bincluded, with a repertoire that surely deserves a future entry in this blog. At that time, I could not help thinking of that famous afternoon in Palma de Mallorca. Sergio was the alter ego of that exact Pilar could not stop laughing.


Blood of his blood, no doubt.

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Carolina Cellular Respiration Lab




Yes. One year no less. On 29 September, to be exact. The day was sad, no doubt about that. I received several calls from family and friends. All I remember like it was yesterday. However, looking back, I think we'll overcome, one way or another. The proof is that now we talk about it all without complex. A Sergio will often say "Remember when Mom said?. The pain is giving way to remember more and more alive and more endearing that when she died Pilar. I can see videos that came her recent photographs, etc. I return to the blog after the summer parentheses.


"During adolescence, there is the character of the person," after a certain age, people do not change "... Are all phrases that we have ever heard, and that most of the time we have taken for certain, for dogmas of faith, those of which we considered not even valid, because we believe they are true.

people, change. You bet they change. I, without going any further, I have changed dramatically two years now, and I have no less to forty-eight years, so, or the dogma of faith is not entirely true, or not entirely true depending on what cases, or I'm a weirdo, which at this point in the film would cost me to assimilate, because I always considered a person more or less balanced and rather plain little.

Why am aware of my hand, if there was any?. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross defined very well in his book about grief and pain, "one of those books that I want ye never read, but I strongly recommend that if ever you see yourself immersed in a situation as painful as mine. The author speaks of the change occurring in people who have suffered the loss of a loved one. Suddenly, the problems of others seem silly compared to the loss has affected him. The death of a loved one is not just that, a terrible loss, but a brutal collision, direct, and stomach, knowing that we all have to die. That phrase, said well, do not say anything that has not seen a situation like that. A situation that touches us obliquely when death occurs is that of a close relative, we can be very painful, but that does not affect us much as our spouse, the person I had decided to share lifetime.

Things look differently when you acquire the knowledge that someday, sooner or later, you're going to meet with that person you've loved so much. We all believe in a sense immortal. When we hear on the radio the statistics of car accidents, of those affected by diseases, or those affected by natural disasters in the depths of our soul we are convinced that this is not going with us, we will take forever. Well, friends, at the loss of Pilar, that belief fades, and I have become aware that any day I can come to me. It's hard to assimilate, very hard, and I'm not sure that is capable of power explain the feeling of which I speak, but what I can assure you is that the scale of problems, or rather what we consider problems, undergoes a radical change. Many things that previously made me real uphill seem silly today.

This attitude can create gaps in our relationships with others, from the fact that, when someone has a problem (or a hypothetical problem, most of the time), I can build, albeit not deliberate, to not giving the importance that should give so that others perceive that the matter concerns me. It is difficult to explain. The truth is that rarely, even in the life of Pilar, I had a minimal awareness of what can be a problem, mostly because more or less all I have been solved, but now, after the tragedy, and the situation that we have suddenly been pushed my son and I, anything else seems unimportant, and the worst is that many times I can not hide it, or it costs me a lot. Anything that raises me, I have the habit of thinking fucking uncontrollably, "at least he is alive", which, although most of us do not seem so, because we consider ourselves immortal, is the most important I can assure you.

listen to my arguments about the couple, usually among the members of my family or couples. Are arguments to the air, dropped so that those who hear them give one reason or another. I've always done a certain grace that we have that need people around us give us the reason. Is not this really a bit absurd?. The first thing you have to give the reason one is yourself, and do not think you have to seek the approval of others, especially when others put them in the position of having to choose between one of two members the couple. No matter what is spoken. Any argument, pilgrim, can be justified with words (even the most intransigent Nazism was justified in the eyes of the people with arguments). On this basis, all that a couple take to the face is just a string of accusations, they will not go anywhere unless it is no longer broadcast. When it comes to the silences between a couple, it is dangerous, when in question, is always there, of course, respect of each other. The silences between couples are as dangerous as insults or humiliations. When you get to this point, it means that the relationship between the couple is dead. Then comes the divorce, in some cases, or abuse others, if one of the two partners is not strong enough to root out the relationship. But even when it reaches this point, there is always a possibility turning back. There is hope that one of the two changes, and realize the stupidity that has been setting aside a couple as wonderful as I had.

know not look down, and that often leads to dead ends that do not do anything to give us on the head, without being able to find a solution. Experiment seem mice in a maze of corridors that lead nowhere. That is something that more or less I'm starting to learn in these past two years. I stand at a point slightly above the problem and see its size and importance, most of the time is ridiculous. Sometimes I think about it, and wonder "what we do, Pilar?". Then I will always remember those "bah, nothing happens," Pilar let go with that strength his face any obstacles ahead touchdown. It was a luxury to share this pride philosophy of life, I assure you. Once I figure a post with that optimism that characterized it, that smile above all, the problem disappears, or at least I see it differently. I am also learning to not causing me problems, something that many couples also are used. They can create problems for the other attitude. We are very upset that the other is lying on the couch while we ironed, for example. We realize the other it also seems worthy, or that it is possible that you had a bad day at work, and we hide it so we are not depressed. In a situation like this, maybe the sensible thing is to ask "Is something wrong?" And give a little to his fatigue.
been a year.

Thursday, October 1, 2009

Milena Velba Milk Side Of Road

AE20 - Psychotherapy and entheogens in the deployment of human consciousness - Mikel García


In this talk, which opens the lecture series of the 2009-2010 Association Eleusis - Mike Garcia over 30 years experience as a physician and 22 as a psychologist, will explore the convergences, confrontation and integration between historically distant initiatory pathways, psychotherapy and entheogens' exploring myths, fears and resistance, in order to outline a constructive interaction log for integration ", in the words of Mike Garcia.


Mike Garcia has practiced his profession in various capacities in the medical profession, from medicine to rural mental health. His background includes reichina therapy, Jungian analytical psychology and transpersonal psychotherapy.

Bachelor of Medicine degree in psychology.
psychotherapist integrative analytic orientation.
With experiential and theoretical training in: Psychoanalytic Therapy, Reichian body-mind
, Jungian Analytical Psychology, Transpersonal Psychotherapy and Training
in Systemic Therapy. Experience
32 years as a doctor and 22 years as a psychotherapist: 10 years as a medical
holiday in Spain (1977-1996), 6 years as a clinical psychologist
public mental health centers and hospital
Osasumbidea (Navarra Health Service, 1987 - 1993) and since 1993
works as a physician and psychotherapist in private practice. Awardee
program "Child Abuse and checkout of the
Children" of Donostia (San Sebastián, 2001-2003). Collaborating with NGOs
medical
international intervention and community health programs. Researcher consciousness.
currently a member of the SEPPI (Society Española de Psicología y
Psicoterapia para la integración), de la que es responsable de la
sección de Terapia Sistémica, de A.T.R.E (Asociación Transpersonal
Española), y de la SEPAI (Sociedad Española de Psicología y Análisis
Integrativo).

WEB: http://www.iravajra-cuicatlsin-panitxo.org
Blog: http://mikelgarcia.blogspot.com/

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